Not the same
Until now, I haven’t taken the time to share my thoughts on everything we, the Enderle family, have been through — and to put it bluntly, it’s been incredibly difficult. It’s been painful, overwhelming, and not something I would ever wish on anyone. We all understand, in theory, that life eventually comes to an end for each of us. But we don’t get to know the when, the how, or the where (which is a good thing). Still, it’s those of us left behind who struggle with the emotional aftermath that plagues our everyday thoughts. Before November, I had never truly experienced loss. I’ve said goodbye to all of my grandparents — one I never had the chance to meet, and the others after they had lived long, full lives. Those funerals, were celebrations of life — filled with stories, laughter, and gratitude for the time we had with them. These most recent losses were different. They were sudden, profound, and left a hole I never expected. Our family has endured two unexpected losses that brought...